How often have you been presented with a decision and been blindsided by a feeling inside of you that was hard to explain but just knew that it was wrong? More often than not woman are better at listening to their “gut feeling” than a man is. In marriages this incident often arises, especially in mine. I think that is why God gave women “this sense” to know when something feels fishy or out of place because when your husband proposes an idea to you but you feel there is something not so right about it you probably just saved yourself a lot of heart ache.

Many men don’t like to admit it but they really do value their wives opinions and “gut feelings”. I do not know how many times my “gut feeling” has saved us from going down a bumpy road. It is good to trust your feelings after all there is a reason why we have them in the first place. So even though your husband may be a little hesitant to ask what you opinion is about a certain decision or he might mope around the house because he “didn’t get to do what he wanted to do” just know that if your gut feeling says its wrong then it probably means it is wrong in almost 99.5% of the cases. As wives we are our husband’s balance and even though we might not have the finally say so in the final decision, our husband’s will value what we feel is right and will more than likely listen to us if we voice our opinions after all husband’s are made to want to provide and please their wives.